Sometimes I’m happy I could never truly follow through with ending my life because, damn, do I not want to exist right now.
Apparently I can come off as unsupportive and unwilling to help at work. to me, I’m setting boundaries finally and telling people no or not answering questions for the 10 millionth time. Eventually, when they start to widdle away at me, yea, I will say no. Or not start a message with HIIII!!! but rather just ask or say what needs to be asked or said.
But know most of the team is thinking this right now…kills all motivation. Makes me 100% not want to be around here right now.
And in this meeting with my boss where he told me this, I found out someone else was getting promoted over me AND some of my job responsibilities were being moved. But at least I’m not getting demoted and this conversation isn’t in my official HR profile, just on paper in his own file.
I’m always the person offering advice, going above and beyond, helping on things I don’t have to when asked…I just…sigh