These are texts my boyfriend sends me, usually after he starts drinking. He’s an alcoholic, but even so he still never apologizes for his egregious behavior. When he’s sober he’s not so much verbally abusive, but overdramatizes everything. I lied to him one time. I was visiting a girlfriend he dislikes, so I lied and told him I had to go into work…but I visited with her instead! He found out and continuously calls me a pathological liar. Here are some of his texts. And there are hundreds of them!
Please At the slightest displeasure, you stop helping out around the house and yard; meaning that I have to do all the work myself; it is time for you to go, because if you are not helping - you are are a burden.
As a person, you bring no joy to my life; our relationship is all about your personal problems; and my efforts to help you solve them; and yet, you do not help me in my life’s struggles at all.
Your latest tizz has me cleaning up the yard and garden all by myself. FUCK OFF! All while you do absolutely nothing sitting upstairs isolating yourself and shirking any responsibilities that you have to me or the house.
You are capricious and unreliable. You are unworthy. As long as have you mentioned moving out again; please go. You are a burden and contribute nothing to my life. You think you are better than me and my friends; and yet we moved you and saved you from utter destitution. You have graduated from being an ingrate to a person who totally violates social norms and those persons that helped you.
You condemned my friends that moved you; while you were paralyzed with thoughts of leaving your colonial home; you did not help in any way, and these friends that you now reject, served you very well at the time. And I had no choice but to share your words with my friends. They universally reject you. You have isolated yourself. And now it is time to get the fuck out. You betray the people that helped you survive. Get the fuck out.
You are a jerk. You are not a good person. I am sorry you are too stupid, arrogant, and self-serving to be in a relationship with with me. Please move out at your earliest convenience.
You have no idea of relationship needs or maintenance. If you did we may some chance of staying together. But you are gone and get So, you ate the whole of two burger dinners except 2 bites? You have to stop eating so much! Ever think about me? Go fucking feed yourself from now on. And maybe you could cook something once and awhile.
Okay. I got up found my glasses to read your text in case there is an emergency or something. And it is this? Really? Hide away and then you up in my only day to sleep well with this? When I say you are high maintenance I mean it. So rude too.
And if you do not respond, I am going to assume that you are continuing your disrespect of my person. You have to reply yes or no. No means we are over. And then, you have actually have to do what you have committed to do. Understand? I am so fucking fucking pissed off and disillusioned with you right now you had better respond soon.
Your totally dismissive attitude is offensive. Totally. And it really is pissing me off - all day long. You really may want to do something about that. Really. Did I really use enough really’s to make you really fucking understand that You are a fucking nut. At the least displeasure you stop all personal communications. You are are so fucked up, you are are not worthy of me. Bitch. Cunt. Peice of shit.
You are a fucking cunt. Get the fuck out of my house as soon as you can.
Repulsive fuckin cunt
You are a crAzy fuckinh birdhouse get the fuck out of my life! And then
My friends and I agree that you are a piece of shit that thinks that she is better than everyone else. And yet she is a peice of shit