So last month on the 20th of July i went into the hospital for suicidal thoughts, it was probably one of the most serious times because i was seriously considering it. Like that night i would have swallowed pills and ended it all. But i didn’t clearly but after i got out of the hospital, i felt more alone than ever…
Im still so badly depressed that they had to push back when i go back to work, which normally doesn’t happen i usually take like a week off from being out of the hospital and go back. I guess im confused as to what’s different this time… am i like finally realizing how bad i really am? Or is it something deeper? They had to change several of my meds, and i just i feel so lost and just want to be normal.
Then im worried about work and still having a job after all of this, like i know i am handling everything correctly through my leave people. But still it’s making me so anxious and nervous , that i sometimes can’t think straight. Cause i really need this job, it gives me great benefits so that i can get the help i need.
And then i just feel alone , like so so alone. The people i would even remotely consider friends barely give me the time of day. And i get they are adults and have a life, but still like … check in on me. Respond to me when i ask if your doing okay, like i see them online and nothing. It makes me feel so much more isolated then i already am because relationships in general are so hard for me because of my Borderline Personality Disorder. An the people i do trust, im so scared to let it because what if they abandoned me like my so called “friends” have? What if they leave me because i’m to much? I honestly feel like i have never had a good friend, and it kills my soul. Because i just want someone i can count on , that at least says something if i check in on them.
All of this just makes me feel so worthless and hopeless because i feel like what’s the point of being around, if i don’t have anyone that cares if im here or not? Also sorry for the ramble , i just needed to get this out.