@Geko,
I’m so sorry, friend. What you’re feeling right now makes totally sense and we all need social interaction. It helps us to connect to this world, to share great moments with others… and having a job is certainly a huge part of it.
A few months ago I lost my job and am unemployed since then. As I’m not really great at building new relationships, those that I had with my colleagues were a huge part of my social life. And now, there’s not much left of it, unfortunately. I appreciate them a lot, still talk to them just like you do, through texts and online messages. But obviously when you don’t see someone everyday then it takes a toll on the relationship you have with them. Now I could say my social life is really similar to yours.
You did the right thing by letting your family know about your current needs. And I’m really sorry they didn’t seem to understand. It’s so frustrating when you manage to be vulnerable, to share something important and intimate but feel like you haven’t been heard… Unfortunately, if they’re not willing to spend some time with you, you can’t force them. And it’s their loss…
When I was a student I felt pretty alone too. I had no one to talk to, only some texts and online messages from my family sometimes. I hurt a lot for realizing that some days I actually didn’t say something, out loud, to someone, just because I hadn’t anyone to interact with. I ended to do the same as you: seeking occasions to talk to random strangers. I even cherished the 30 second of interactions I could have with the baker whose shop was just near where I lived. And I felt so ridiculous for that.
It certainly depends on where you live, but there are probably possibilities for you to meet new people and talk to them on a regular basis. Have you considered volunteering? Just yesterday, I volunteered for the first time in a night shelter for paperless men. I didn’t know much about this place, didn’t know how it works and I’ve been impressed by how organised they are there. I didn’t know anyone either, I’ve been given a job I didn’t know anything about, it was exhausting to me as my anxiety was quite at intense at the moment, but at the end of the day it felt really good! And I’m looking for going back there more regularly if I can.
Also, do you have any passon or interests that might be shared by a group, an organization or a club near where you live? Any events or activities affordable or free that you could go to? It could be really worth it to keep an eye on programs and calendars of events near where you live, as there might be interesting things for you and opportunities to meet great people out there.
The idea of @Astroly, about pets, is really great too. Obviously it’s different than interactions with humans, but animals can be of a great comfort. They don’t care about where you are in your life and what circumstances you’re facing. They just love you anyway.
It’s still an online interaction, but if you ever need to talk, to vent, to cry, then know that my DMs are open to you as well.
I’m rooting for you. This season of your life isn’t meant to last. Keep reaching out, keep going outside and try not to isolate yourself. I know this can be very tempting when we feel alone and disappointed, when we’re seeking for something that is waiting to arrive. It will get better.
Sending much love your way.