I’m white and so are my parents. My parents think it’s ok to say the n word when they’re not around black people and it’s really bothering me. I’ve tried to educate them but they just call me a snowflake.
This is unfortunate to hear. I’m sorry your attempts to sway your parents haven’t worked.
I will say, trying to help someone to be a more considerate person certainly doesn’t make you a snowflake. Also, while I can understand how this would make you uncomfortable, you have done your best to educate them and so you should take solace in that. You’ve done your part. It is up to them to change now - and at the end of the day there is nothing you can really do beyond what you already have. You can’t change for them, they must do that.