Hey,
So I’m here it’s about 3am and I’m here because I’m at the end of my rope.
My gf broke up with me…
I had to move back home
my music endeavors failed
I don’t know if I have a job anymore
My friends and family are getting married
starting families and have homes.
My dreams are dead, it sounds super dramatic I know but I don’t know what to do anymore
The things that hurt is that I was going to marry my now ex and my dream of sharing my experiences are gone.
For three years I lived in a different city stressed out because I was fighting to find a stable job and accomplished my goals in music and schooling.
I had music going strong, a stable job and looking at school. Covid hit and hit me hard, I acknowledge many people didn’t have it easy either but just like them that’s when my dreams and progress in life started regressing and falling apart.
My band stopped just before our album was released, all that hard work and the excitement I had a chance to just be heard for once was gone…
So I decided not to let my self fall into that hole so after a few but long set backs I was enrolled in school and was gonna change my future and build a better life for my gf and I.
After a year I was wrapping up classes and my job just started to demand more from me
My gf and I were having issues cause I was depressed and things just got hard.
My love for life was starting to go away but I knew things would improve with my new job.
I was applying for new jobs in my new career…
I kept not hearing anything but then after a few weeks I got two interviews in the same week.
I was excited cause I was gonna start saving up for a marriage and a house then bamm…
Last week my gf who I known for 5 years and dated for 3 more woke me up and told me she didn’t love me anymore.
She said that I was going nowhere…
She thought since things were stressful since I moved down in the past three years that a life with me would always be that way… she now is seeing someone else.
I can’t sleep, I barely eat, I have my chest feeling tight and heavy, I have to take big breathes and I’m crying.
I’m not an emotional guys at all but damn I don’t know anymore.
I keep praying to God for something to change.
I have no future it feels like I keep fucking fighting and it’s pointless.
To whom ever reads this understand
I’m not entitled to anything, especially not a persons love. I don’t expect things to be handed to me but things keep pushing me down and down down
I just want to be heard , I just want to feel like I matter, I want to feel purpose, I want to belong somewhere again.
So Im here now because I have no where to go
no one to listen anymore and I can’t be alone with my thoughts anymore…