My therapist mouth made me do a script, about a girl that big crush in my fitness class. How she hated me and they will never be enough for anyone. This story I made up to face rejection, but still can’t face it.
So years ago, I went on a tinder date with her. Honestly, i personality had a lot and she was really cool. However, we never hang after, I try a couple to make she alway she busy ( mostly not interested )
She show on social media she was doing a fitness class. I figure I wanted to get in better shape anyway, so why not. She did wave at me a couple, sometime we do some small talking. Last class I did see her, we did not wave, in addition it was during a work out. One point we have to get a panther, I figure she probably already had one. Then I look over she was by herself. Kinda wish I made a move.
Oven the hands, I’m too sensitive of being rejection ( cause my BDP) . It point really dark place, to point I want hurt people. Even doing something mess up, like message her saying I’m going end my life because of you or just snap at her. I’m terrible of dealing with these emotions, having that teacher in my past saying no girl will ever be with you.
That way I don’t date, the worst of me come out and never desire enough for a woman.