It all comes down to self-love and self-acceptance.
The more inner work you do on yourself, the more grounded you will be.
Your energy will be attractive because your confidence overflows and you have something so wonderful to offer. If you approach a romantic interest with the mindset of taking, or entering her party. She may pickup on your self-doubt and believe that she has more value.
I just know that the greatest work you can do is your relationship with self.
There are 5 A’s that are vital for every relationship, especially your most important relationship with yourself.
Attention: I see you
Appreciation: I value you
Approval: I accept you
Affection: I love you
Allowing: I trust you
I suggest you try to look straight into your eyes in the mirror every day and say those 5 affirmations to yourself. And embody the feelings connected to them, not just the words.
You will feel an energy shift within a few days in how you carry yourself.
Take special note of the affirmations that are difficult to say to yourself, and truly mean them.
Then you can give special attention to that aspect.
Ultimately, your good healthy relationship with self, will become naturally attractive because you’re so grounded. And when you interact with others, they will feel that you’re giving generously of your abundant love. You will radiate positivity and send the message clearly that you’re not there to take from them, but you’re there to give and share your amazing vibes. You will truly believe that it’s THEIR LOSS if they choose not to be closer to you. Due to the fact that your presence would only enrich them and provide an uplifting interchange. The women are not a prize or a mere toy, or like a fish to catch. They are a beautiful individual that is also looking for exciting and healthy connections with others on their journey of life. Yes they can be very hot and intimidating, but keep reminding yourself they are just a human like you. And you must be prepared to find out that a stunning beautiful woman might actually be unkind and shallow, and only looking for a superficial connection. Your confidence and intuition will tell you that your value is too great, to beg and bow down and let yourself be treated poorly, just because she might be hot. This is where your self-love and truly knowing your value comes in.
Human connections can be very complex, and you have to be very keen reader of body language and signs for openness to connection.
All in all, please try my suggestions for the self-affirming statements, and most of all you are in the best position to attract true romantic connections if you are grounded in your self-love and esteem.
You don’t have to “catch” her, or “pick her up”. You just have to provide a taste of what it feels like to be in your presence and give her positive vibes that radiate from your healthy relationship with self!
All the best on your journey,