From 𝚈𝚘𝚔𝚘 : Hello again, today I am talking about a situation that happened to me before, so let’s 𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚛𝚝 Okay, almost a long time ago, I was sitting normally talking to my family, so I heard my mother speaking in a low voice saying, “You are a monster.” She meant me, so here I was trying to hold myself 𝚋𝚊𝚌𝚔 Because I don’t like to cry in front of anyone, so I finished talking to my family and found myself crying in front of my family. I tried a lot to keep quiet, but It just doesn’t work I found my mom saying, “I’m sorry I called you a monster.” I said, my mother, it’s normal, I cry a lot because I used to hide myself for a long time, so thank God, I got inside him because of his word, I will never forget this situation Just like that, every day I talk about my problem, so tomorrow, God willing, I will talk about a situation or a dream, so my advice is that you don’t care about your family’s words because the people’s words are very harsh, and that’s just peace
I’m sorry your mom said that to you but I’m glad she reassessed and apologized. I’m also glad that you are able to recognise that what others say do not always reflect the truth of the situation. I hope you continue finding peace
From twixremix: hi yoko, i’m so sorry you heard your mother say that about you. being called a monster is so harsh so it’s understandable that you cried and felt such strong emotions. i love the advice you shared at the end of your post though because the only person’s opinion about you that you should be concerned with is your own. sending you a ton of comfort as you continue on in your journey. love, twix
Hi Yoko, I’m sorry your mother said that to you. Even tho she apologized, it still hurts and sucks. I hope that she doesn’t do it again and that you can heal and find peace. You matter!
I am so sorry to hear that you had to go through this situation with your mother. Hearing those words from a loved one must be difficult, and incredibly painful. Crying it out and processing your emotions is perfectly normal for anyone in this situation. That you so much for sharing this with us, and I do hope that the relationship between you and your mother can heal over time.
Hey Yoko I am so so sorry that you heard those words from your Mum, that was unkind and untrue. It makes sense that it upset you so very much. I am thankful that your mum has apologised but those feelings of hurt take a very long time to leave you. I hope that one day that scar will heal for you and that you will be able to have some trust again in your family, until then please look after yourself, give yourself some time and grace and remember that you are a beautiful person with a wonderful heart. Much Love Lisa. x
Yoko, Oh friend, my heart hurts for what has hurt you. Having your mom tell you something like this cuts deep. It does take a long time to work through this kind of pain and wound and you deserve better my friend. It sucks when trust with family is broken this way. And it’s okay to talk about this and to keep working on healing. I hear you and I hear how you are working hard to put this in a place where you can not be wounded again by painful words from a family member. Know that I hear you and your heart matters. You matter and you deserve healing and wholeness. Please let us know how you are doing.
From 𝚈𝚘𝚔𝚘 : I don’t know what to tell you, but seriously, I’m very happy with your words. It’s true that I have to bear my life, but it’s very difficult. Praise be to God, I tell people what’s inside of me, and I say My opinion I just wanted to say to me after a very long time. It is true that my family treated me badly, but I will bear everything so that I am not weak in front of anyone.
From 𝚈𝚘𝚔𝚘 : Thank you for your kind words. The first time someone says this to me, seriously, thank you very much. I’m trying to say what’s inside of me, but my circumstances are a bit tough. I’m trying to write more and that. So there are things I will still say, God willing, so I really hope that I will be cured of severe depression
From 𝚈𝚘𝚔𝚘 : Yes, I always hear my family say bad things about me, but I try not to care, but it is very difficult. I already have a heart that hurts every day because of my family’s words. I swear to God that I cry for hours and I sleep for hours. I never get any sleep. I stay awake a lot, listen to sad songs, cry and think about my past. I try to forget everything that happened to me from injustice or exploitation.
From 𝚈𝚘𝚔𝚘 : But thank you for your words. I mean, I am really happy that there are people interacting with me. I thought that because people ignore me, but it turned out to be the opposite. Seriously, I am very honored by you