Hello friends, it’s been some time since I’ve posted here, and participated in the community, I hope you’re all doing well.
For all wondering about updates for my last post, it might be a topic for another day.
Summer break is over now, and today was the first day of school, and i can’t say it gave me a first good impression. I met all of my classmates with a cold, indifferent “hello” even though I think they were excited to see me, and i made no effort in correcting that and connecting with them during recess. For reference, last school year was full of burnout, and now, when i step into it, I wholly remember why that is. It feels like this 3 month break has done nothing in easing it in any way. The classes are even longer now(1 hour 20 minute each), and seem even more uninteresting and engaging. To make things worse, we didn’t have the fun introduction and getting ready week like previous years, we were kind of just thrown into it, which makes me feel like the joyful, youthful part of school is gone(which it has).
Many people left this year(of which I held dear very much) and my class has now split with all the ones i adore being in the other class(they kind of made last year bearable). Now I know if I don’t make an honest effort to connect with them outside class that we will eventually also split apart friendship wise. But I feel tied to this boy group, wondering where I go, and some following me all the time, and some of this also feels very alien. I’ve always connected with my classmates over text, especially in the summer, and now I am unsure how to transfer that to real life, where some things might be different.
Which leads me to my question, how does one bear the unbearable? How can I wake up everyday at 6, put on my clothes, eat, and go to 8 hours to a school in which I do not care for learning anymore, only to stress out over grades. How can I continue to sit through these 1 hour 20 minute classes without the ever lasting desire to stop suffering and go home?
This is another year where I will repeat the same patterns of burn out(that have been worsened by the last year, I’m starting this one ALREADY burnt out) I don’t want to spend this entire year wasting away my valuable time on something that eats me up every single second.
So I ask the question once more: How can one bear the unbearable?