Hello everybody!
I’m a new user here, and it’s nice to have found a place to let my thoughts out comfortably, it’s okay if nobody replies!
I absolutely hate myself, not just myself but my very being and existence. I am a completely worthless person, and I wish I was exaggarating when I said this, because I know a lot of people don’t realize their value, but I don’t have that value. I have no skills, not even social skills, I mess up EVERYTHING, and I mean literally EVERYTHING I try to do, I can’t clean, I can’t cook, I can’t play games, get good grades at school, I can’t even get to a place with Google Maps.
And I hate it whenever people tell me that I don’t realize my worth or that I just have to practice and find my talent, I practice things everyday and still fail every single time, people learn from mistakes but I make the same exact ones every single time, there is nobody I know that isn’t better at literally everything I do, even if they’ve been doing it for a considerably shorter time than me.
I am convinced that everybody hates me and talks sh*t about me every single time, even when I mess something up and nobody is there to see it, it always feels like people are watching, judging, and making fun of me even when I am completely alone. My anxiety is so crippling that I cannot go out of my house, talk to anybody about my interests, including my own family, and everytime I have to explain or excuse something I’ve ruined, I just turn tail and evade the conversation altogether.
On the topic of family, they absolutely hate me. Like I said, everybody around me hates me. My friends don’t seem to want to talk to me, my family is always angry at me for something, and I never have any interesting stories to share with them about my day, I cannot get myself to spend time with them because I’m too ashamed of myself, which translates to even more self-hate because they always guilt-trip me about not spending time with them. I don’t deserve their love in any way, don’t get me wrong, and it’s affirming in a way to know that it doesn’t feel like I receive it sometimes, but it’s still painful to know I have to engage with people who deserve a better child or friend.
I am genuinely convinced that I deserve to die, and that I should end myself as soon as possible, I hate it when people tell me I deserve to live or that I am not worthless because I am. There’s nothing good about me, nobody that actually knows me as a person can say they want me alive, I don’t have anything that would make me useful either to people or to society, I have nothing going for myself.
Is there anything I can do to at least quell the negative thoughts a little? I’ve been considering somehow numbing my emotions completely but don’t know how to actually get to doing that. Suicide is preferable but right now I don’t have any reliable means of doing it so it’s off the table currenly.