I am alone i dont want any friends but my brain is

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I am alone i dont want any friends but my brain is telling me i need friends

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Hi @HeartSupport_Fans

You’re not alone we all feel this struggles at time. We are all here for you at heartsupport forums. Always welcome to reply more feedback on the forums. Don’t really hold back this pain of not having friends and sometimes people leave our lives which is heartbreaking at times. But we got to just keep moving through this struggle and find a way to leave the darker side of this struggle.

Hold Fast.
@KyleGouldOfficial

Hi @HeartSupport_Fans,
As people, we often go through things like this. Feelings of loneliness and feeling like you don’t need other people is something I have gone through myself. You are not alone in this struggle. Thank you for writing us and please reach out back. We would love to help you through it and we are here for you. Please take care.
Thank you,
Splash.

Welcome to HeartSupport!
It is common to feel like connecting with others isn’t worth it. There’s a line in a Simon & Garfunkel’s “I am a Rock” that says, “I have no need of friendship. Friendship causes pain. Its laughter and its loving I disdain.” Other people let you down; other people can stab you in the back.
In opposition to that, there’s the saying, “It’s better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.” The disappointments don’t have to overshadow the good times. It was good for you to experience those good times, even if they don’t last. There are things you learn from previous relationships.
There are friendships that I miss, but I still remember the good parts fondly. I might not see those friends again, but they have made a good impact in my life.
Take Care. I hope that you’re able to take the chance on friendships and see that it’s not all thorns.

Hey friend,

I know where you’re coming from. It’s always been during moments of my life where it seemed like nothing was working and all the people that I would be around, sucked my energy from me.

This song helped me process a lot of those emotions, but more importantly helped me work on opening my heart up. We’re a heard/pack species as humans and we need friends around us to help us live our best life.

It’s kind of like pushing through the mud, but to share love and to be loved is an incredible aspect of life. Which is why I’m glad you found Heartsupport. We’re all people who get it. We all hear you and understand where you’re coming from.

  • “It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.” – Alfred Lord Tennyson.

Stay strong my friend, we’re here for you.

Hold fast

@HeartSupport hey, thanks. I know I’m not alone but it feels like it like I’ll be thinking about people are giving me dirty looks talk bad about me but in reality that’s not true, for the most part but It is a struggle

@HeartSupport your right it’s not all thorns I thought I had friends in the past but thouse people didn’t last they kinda play games with me so I realize they are not my real friends they are just figment of my imagination

@HeartSupport hey I think I need help I’m still having negative thoughts pretty bad and it’s kinda keeping me up and I’m gonna see a Dr but I know we all feel like this but I can’t fight this feeling it’s like my inter demons are winning

Hang in there friend <3 - when is your next appointment with the doctor? - also, well done for scheduling this!