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I can’t let her go!!! if I let it all go I’ll never have that again. that love only exists once in a lifetime. if I let it go it will be gone forever!
hi there,
i recently had someone go through a similar situation and it is not easy to let go of something that means so much to you. i understand these relationships that end can take a long time to move on from. it has taken months to years for me to move on from these pivotal relationships. but after some time, you start to note the good aspects of the relationships and use them as a reference for how you want to be treated in the future. we as humans are capable of showing so much love in different ways, and there are billions of us. you will get that chance to find that love again. it may seem like once in a lifetime, but just when you think you have everything, you will have the whole world in your hands and everything will feel in place.
i wish you the best. you deserve to have that love again. give yourself the time that you need to properly move on. you don’t need to block the relationship out but you can remember the good times. good luck, the world is your oyster 
-daniela
Thank you for reaching out and being willing to be vulnerable. I can sympathize with where you are at. I’ve been divorced for three years from the woman I thought was my soulmate; she was my everything. Like you, I felt as though losing her was losing my chance at true love and happiness. It hurt; I was severely depressed and felt hopeless. I didn’t know what I was supposed to do anymore. It’s a rough place to find yourself. I know it may not seem like it now, but you can use this opportunity to learn more about yourself, to learn how to truly love yourself and see what you really want for your life. Sometimes the timing isn’t right for relationships, but you can find the good in this tough situation. Fall in love with who you are or use this as a chance for self examination to work on who you want to be. Don’t give up and never stop being willing to love and be loved. You are worth it.
With Love
Eric
Hi Friend. Thanks for sharing here.
Losing someone you have that type of connection with for whatever reason is a pretty awful time. Someone we’ve shared our best and worst times with, who you take for granted that will be for you every day and you’ll spend the rest of your life with them. Sometimes the feelings are so big that you feel like there is no going forward, that life will stop and never move forward from this moment forward, because that person is no longer there. Losing someone like that makes it feel like you’ll never be able to experience joy or happiness again.
These are all completely normal human reactions to these types of events. What you’re feeling is natural and it’s ok to have those feelings. Two things I’ve picked up along my own journey (which includes having these same exact feelings you’re going through here) are:
Time heals all wounds is actually not just some cheeky motivational saying that people fling at you when they don’t know what else to say.
Some people are put in our path to stay forever, while others are just supposed to visit and teach us something before leaving.
Ultimately, if you continue down your path learning the lessons that the Universe is putting along the way for us, the final outcome can be much greater than anything you could have imagined. Stay strong, focus on being the healthiest form of you during these tough times, and I hope that you can find the happy ending that you deserve.
Hi there,
I understand that it feels like letting go means losing something irreplaceable. Love, when it is so strong can feel like it is a once-in-a-lifetime thing but sometimes holding on too tight can hurt you and the other person more than letting go.
I know it is hard to see it and understand it in the moment but just know that love doesn’t just happen once, there will be many different loves in your lifetime and that doesn’t mean that this one is not special it.
letting go sometimes is the first step to many new possibilities (this not only applies to love but to everything in life)
Take it one step at a time and please be kind to yourself in the process
sending love and support,
Domenica