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I deleted Facebook because I found it difficult to see my ex-girlfriend getting married. We had a history in high school where I was her type, and she has always been attractive, even appearing on TV in Chicago and the Food Channel. I wanna die now, I read what I wrote it made me pathetic.
What you are feeling is a very normal human emotion and is by no means pathetic at all. Feeling hurt and betrayed by someone even though they objectively did nothing wrong adds guilt to the concoction. I can’t imagine that it’s enjoyable in the least. Unfortunately, people move on and have their own lives, and as much as we want things to stay the same, we can’t, and that’s okay. I think deleting Facebook is a reasonable response, and if that helps you, then you should do it, but I don’t think you should sit with these negative feelings forever. Instead, you should focus on your own life and what makes you happy.
You are not pathetic, I promise.
Hi there,
It’s hard to let go of someone who meant a lot to us. When we are taken from the ending we were hoping to have with them, continuing to add memories to this life together, but unfortunately it happens that we can’t be with those people anymore. And just seeing them moving forward, it feels like we didn’t mean much to them, when we still are stuck trying to heal ourselves from this break up.
Then it adds the social media that still shows us their life events, and it hurts. It hurts because even if we don’t want, we still get those flashbacks and emotions regarding what we lived together and now we are forced somehow to see it. I think you did a good decision by deleting Facebook, in this way you won’t have contact with her anymore and most probably it will make it easier to move forward, and to make your own love story too, you deserve to write new chapters that are worth remembering and be kept close to your heart.
Feeling so much, and thinking now about why she moved on, and how she moved on, can come with this heavy feeling of wanting to die and disappear, to not feel all these emotions anymore, to not face them, but slowly it will pass, it’s a lot of intensity now because it’s so recent and with time it will be less and less.
It can be scary to love again, but loving someone comes with the risk of suffering, but what is life if we won’t try to love anymore because our past keeps us stuck.
I hope that you will find easier each day to get over this situation and all the emotions that came with it. Hold fast!
@@HeartSupport it was my fuck up. It was over 30 years ago and I got married and then got divorced and I have kids so she is 50 now but she is quite beautiful. Fuck I’m old as fuck. Sorry I swear a lot.