Seeking some external support/someone who can relate to how I feel…
For being 24 years old, I live a blessed live. I have a roof over my head, I have a job that is in a field that I have never been in before and can gain valuable experience from, I have friends, I have church, and more. But on nights like tonight where it is the weekend, I couldn’t make plans to do anything, so I just sit in my room staring at the walls.
If I’m being honest, the more I think about where I’m at in life, I feel like a loser, and I really SHOULD NOT be feeling this way. But I can’t help it. Long story short, the past year and a half was the best time of my life because I was able to travel around the country, work in 2 different National Parks, hike some of the most beautiful places in the country, and meet some lifelong friends. But after all that I am back home in PA with my parents, where I just feel like a roommate in the house. I’m not in a relationship, and I look all over social media and see friends who are getting married and all that stuff, which bums me out. I am about to start my FINAL semester of my Bachelors Degree (after taking over 5 years due to working full time and travelling), which is a relief.
Basically, I feel like a loser because I’m not where I think I should be in life. I want to live out west, and although I am financially sound, I’m not financially ready to move out yet, and my current job pays modestly enough for me to pay my bills and to save a little. I feel like I’ve tarnished my own ego for thinking I am too good and that I have moved on from living with my parents as I see how people younger than me are moved away and on there own. I want to say I am happy to some extent, but when I compare myself to where I feel like I should be to where I am now, I feel like a loser.
Can anyone relate?