Hey everybody, I stumbled upon the stream today and thought I would see if anybody shared my problem or could relate to me.
For my entire life I’ve been a loner. I’ve never fit in with anybody, was never very social, and I’ve even struggled with suicidal thoughts starting at the age of 10 because of how I “feel”. I have a loving Christian family, so I always felt as if something was wrong with me because I always felt unloved and abused. When I got to college, I fell into a very deep depression and began to starve myself because I had so much social anxiety. At one point, I found that I had become addicted to the feelings related to depression and I would chase those feelings using terrible thoughts, and even getting my heart broken on purpose to serve that end. This went on for about a year and a half and I woke up each day feeling less and less depressed for no reason. I thought that it was normal for a temporary depression to fade over time, but I suddenly realized that I was experiencing no emotions at all. I became completely detached, having no emotional connections to my first real friends, feeling nothing for my family, and despite trying very hard to feel anything at all, I was desperately unable.
At this point, I went to see a counselor on campus. After just a few sessions, he asked me if he could get a fellow psychologist to join a session. We all talked for a session, and the two asked me questions about my childhood, medical history, and my relationships. I later found out why when I was diagnosed with Antisocial Personality Disorder. For those of you who may not know, ASPD is also referred to as Psychopathy or Sociopathy, of which I am the former. In basic terms, they told me that the signals in my brain that allow for the feeling of emotions had somehow been blocked and/or did not functioning properly, likely resulting from genetic predispositions or my recent trauma, and that this problem was partially responsible for my childhood troubles, as well as my current numbness. (all hypothetical as little research has been conducted). After learning this, I was done with therapy. I really just wanted to know what was “wrong” with me, and after learning that there was no cure, I decided to just adapt to it by myself.
So, here I am a couple years later, and I am simply a consciousness connected to a body. There is nothingness where my emotions should be and I haven’t felt anything but physical stimuli for what seems like an eternity. I start my day thinking, “I’m happy” or “I’m sad” but then I realize that those things are both just thoughts, nothing more. It has gotten to the point where I can’t even feel my emptiness anymore, and I am starting to wonder if I ever really felt anything at all. Perhaps all of my “emotions” have just been my mind trying to rationalize my experiences in relation to what I was taught about the feelings of others. Nothing matters to me, not even my own life, and I often find myself counting down the days to what will hopefully be an untimely death. I often pray to God at night, asking him to take me soon because I can’t even care enough to end it myself.
Sorry about the long, and possibly confusing, explanation, But I’ll happily answer any questions.
I mainly just want to know if anybody else experiences this limbo, this detachment, this lack of even emptiness itself.