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I’m a hopeless alcoholic.
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Hey friend, I’m so sorry to hear you feel this way about yourself. Alcoholism is a hell of a disease, one that is often overlooked. I am glad that you’re able to reach out, it’s always the hardest step to improving yourself. Please don’t give up on yourself friend, regardless of how hopeless your situation feels right now, please know that heart support is behind you the entire way. Keep reaching out friend, if you ever need to vent don’t hesitate.
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Hey my friend,
We’re all broken, lost, or going through the throws of struggle here and know from experience that while it may seem hopeless, you’ve in some way taken a step into the direction of finding hope.
That’s what we’re here at HeartSupport for. We’re people who have been through it and somehow made it out on the otherside. A lot of us, myself included, are still working through things - but we’re doing it together, for each other.
For me, it was trying to find that “next right thing.” Making sure I was able to follow through with ith. This started the momentum needed to push through all those things that kept me down and away from the life I wanted to desperately to live.
I’m glad you’re here and believe that you’re able to find that hope again in your life - and we’re here for you as you do it.
Stay strong my friend, we’re in this together.
Hold Fast
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I think saying you are an alcoholic is actually the first step you take to start building up your life again. It will feel like your life is hopeless and there is no way out. And that is really hard to deal with. But you have already acknowledged that you are an alcoholic and that- even when it hurts to admit that- is a step forward. It is going to be a long road and we are here to support you. But you are on that road towards healing.
I hope you know that you are valuable and you matter. Hold fast, you got this.
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Welcome friend, you have found a community of people who aren’t perfect, who struggle with our own demons, and who are just here to attempt to love each other and bring some hope and joy to each others’ lives. With that said…what brought you to HeartSupport - I know you replied to Nutshell by Alice In Chains (one of my favorite bands and favorite songs also) - but I was just curious if this was one of your first times seeing Taylor’s reaction videos or if you were a long time listener, first time caller friend?
Well…in regards to the alcohol…it is just so good isn’t it. And it can make you feel good, or bad, or whatever you want it to make you feel - at least that is how my own experience with enjoying alcohol has been. If I want to wallow and be sad I can have some whiskey and it will mellow me out further. If I want to get buzzed and have fun at a tailgate and cheer on the Packers, it can make that experience more enjoyable, especially with like-minded people. Or I almost always have a beverage or two at a concert, it is just part of the experience for me. But it sounds like you are acknowledging that you have a problem…and that is huge. That is step one. Admit you have a problem that is affecting your life and relationships - and you’ve done that. You’ve been honest with yourself and with us, and now step two is seek help. I wish you well on your journey forward and hope that you have received some hope and encouragement from us here at HeartSupport. You are not alone and reach out anytime you feel the need. Be well friend.
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I wonder what got you feeling like this? Drinking is okay. From what I see here in this sentence, the things you didn’t say, said the most. So, my hand is out here for support if you are up for talking more and side note: You are not hopeless.
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Hi there!
I’m glad you found HeartSupport and chose to reach out to this amazing and supportive community.
Every single person is so complex and has many virtues and flaws - all of which are incredibly subjective. To some, a clinical diagnosis such as AUD might be seen as a negative, and some may see it otherwise. Many do no realize they even have a condition which can impact their life and others.The bottom line is that nobody is perfect and we all want to be the best version of ourselves, for us and for the others we hold close to us.
I am very proud of you for taking the step to reach out and admit to yourself that this is an aspect of yourself which you are not proud of and shows that you want to improve on this. And it is very possible! I understand that addiction is complex and can be hard to treat - many methods do not work for certain people. However please do not give up because you are not hopeless. There are many forms of treatment, as well as support groups - that may be in development or maybe you have not discovered yet - and these could be very helpful!
Speaking from personal experience, I understand the hopelessness and guilt which stem from a cyclical pathological consumption disorder. I thought I would not be able to recover from my condition and that I would be destined for failure. But having a positive outlook and ensuring that I surrounded myself with a good support system who helped me stay on track with my goals - were key components to my recovery. I hope that you can find the right system that works for you to help achieve your goals!
I hope you know that you are understood and cared for. You are not a burden to anyone - everyone hopes you can live a fruitful and happy in life, and not feel isolated from the world or undeserving of help. I wish you all the best luck in life, and in time I believe you will be able to look back to the beginning of your journey and be incredibly proud of your progress and achievements!
Take care and feel free to reach out whenever you feel ready.
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Nobody is hopeless. There is always tiny little cracks that let in the light somewhere. You will find it my friend. Until you do find it. I am here to talk with you in the dark cause I’m looking for those lights too. Don’t give up.
And I’m a recovered alcoholic. If I can do this then trust me when I say you can too.
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Take it 1 day at a time. Or one step at a time. Rome wasnt built in a day. You can be on uour own timeline. I am working on drinking more healthy. I have found a local bar and community that works for me. I know it might be impossible for me to give up drinking. But i cam drink heslthy at the public bar. At my house i drink to black out. I know everyone has a different life situation worh alcohol. Find something thay works for your life. Maybe it is no alcohol. I am working to re a ch out and have better friends. Ask for help. Surround your self with good people. I have to cut bad people oit. It is hard. I am excited to grow with this community.
Therr can always he hope.