Hey guys, I’m Vincent from Germany, I would really appreciate any advice you guys could give me about me changing my school.
So the last school year I was in 10th grade, that’s the time in Germany where you can decide to either quit school and get an apprenticeship (if that’s the right English term) or continue it till 13th grade, where you would graduate. I decided for myself that I needed that graduation in order to get the Job I want later.
Anyways from 8-10th grade I went to this school (Focused on Technology) which is primarily a boys school, not because girls arent allowed, but rather because they’re not interested in Technology.
So all my 2 buddies (which were really toxic) either failed class, or quit school, so now in 10th grade I was in that class in which I was a big timer loner, I was respected by my classmates and teachers, but I didn’t really had any people left to befriend, or hang out with at school (I tried, but “groups” were already formed since 3 Years, so there was no chance in getting involved).
Long story short, I applied to that new school for 11th grade, (Focused on Nutrition and Social) because I had no friends at that old school.
I was supposed to go there on Monday (14.09), but I have a lot of worries…
My parents and I tried to give me the opportunity to change back, after a week or two if thing went bad, but the HeadTeacher, didn’t let me do that. She said either I’m Here ( At my Old School [The technology one]), or my Place would be taken by someone else…
So my worries for the new school are: -Since this is a school with primarily Girls since it is very much focused on Social things and Nutrition, I don’t know if I’m going to fit in as one of just a very small number of boys.
- This is all new, and i don’t think I’m ready for this, since I’m a big introvert, and it would be very overwhelming…
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ANYWAY, I need your advise here : Should I go to that new school on Monday to find some new friends ( specially female ones, which i really want), have nutrition as a key School subject ( which doesn’t really interests me).
OR should I stay at my Old school, Take Computer science (Where my dad could help me big time) as my Key School subject, maybe find some new friends ( because half the class stays like this and the other half is NEW) ??
I’ve been worrying about this A LOT during the Summer break, and it stresses me out a lot…
I could say I’ll take the old school, be chilled about it, have somewhat good teachers ( I already know them), and find new friends elsewhere ( like at new hobbys or so) .
Or ill take the New one, but I myself thought it would be dumb to change schools, just to get some new friends, and my friends and parents said the same. I’m just worried to regret neglecting the opportunity to change schools ( eventought I wanted to try, but the HeadTeachers said I couldn’t go for a Trial), Especially because I’m already 17, never went to a single party and so on, and I really want to do that before I’m 18…
Please Help me, I have to Decide to which School I’m going to go on Monday!!
I REALLY APPRICIATE your help! Thanks a lot!