Hello!! sigh, its been quite a long time already since i get myself to rant it out here. Last time it was 3 years ago. I wanted to rant… but i was caught between something that swallows my rasional decisions.
I used to rant here cuz i dont have anyone to talk to. I mean i still am but this is the least i could do for myself. Ask advice, seek for other people experiences on how they would deal with such situations. I admit it im at a fault cuz I didnt seek professional help even though i know what’s going on in my head. First becuz my parents cant accept the fact i’d be this depressive and secure (they just dont wanna believe it so they assume im stress and yes, they keep mentioning i need to control things inside my head) Second cuz we are lack of money. A lot of things happened since covid and i just hate it, really hate it when they mention about not having enough money. I tried so hard to convince them that i could help them by working after my finale exam finish in highschool. But they sent me to continue study. Honestly the money they gave it was for my siblings school things. They should at least trust me in helping them. Money wasn’t the only reason. I wanted to improve my communication skills and get over anxiety with other people. Well things didnt go quite well even though i asked her opinion about me working as a part time freelancer just for few months before i gotta continue my study. Its a no from her since i didnt have bank account cuz of me born at the end of december. Im glad the money that we still have enough for the time being but still, this concern me a lot.
My first sem in the beginings, it went very smoothly until the severe breakdowns i experience in every month hits me in the wrong time. I tried to stay stong alone. Its hard. People around me irl have people tht they could at least interact or yknow. (Im sorry, I honestly couldnt understand much about how other humans get along so well to each other). I noticed that 3 of my classmates, dislike me very much for no reason. Just becuz i at least could speak english. little do they know how i was struggling talking in english, no; even talking to other people i would be stuttering a lot. Plus English isnt my primary language. But I would say at least I did well with my speakings that time. For some reason I feel like tht mocked me when they said i am very good at english. But thats the thing. I am excellent in that subject but in other im abit slow. (I am studying at one of Malaysia’s Polythecnic btw). I didnt took art becuz i was in the science class when i was in highschool. Things were messed up 2 years ago i just wanna make things right and not to make people hate me, notice me. Sounds liek a pick me but i was just wanna be nice to everyone and i want them to acknowledge me. I forgot i live in the world and not in the movie. Reality is we are the onlymain character in our own stories. I sacrificed myself just to please people. Hoping they would stay. Society is shitty. So am i. I wonder why am i so complicated. I became more introverted than before. I just wanted to forget that old time where people just mock me without valid reasons. I just wanna be nice and usefull and not a burden.
I will continue telling wat happened next if I could. My head a lil bit hurt tryna figure out how am i gonn survive for this new sem.
Thanks for reading this, truly. This is the least i could do for myself. I can’t afford to trust people but i remeber my mom said earlier before they left me since im staying in hostel. (quite common). She said don’t close up your heart even though you can afford to trust. Life as a human do be like tht cuz we live to comm and help eachother.
Again <3 thank you for reading.