I feel so bad that my parents have to put up with me all the time…they have done so much for me but I’m always having an attitude and trust me I feel bad afterwards when I disrespect my parents but I just can’t help it also I’m always annoying them or arguing with my siblings I’ve tried to stop acting like this before but I always end up going back to my old ways …but I’m also not always like this I help around the house allot with cleaning and taking care of my siblings sometimes it feels like they forget all I’ve done and only remember the bad things, and what makes it worse is I just turned 18 and now when we have our arguments or when they get frustrated with me they say things like they want me out of the house in the next month and idk what to do with controlling my behavior and making them proud and not disappointed.
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Hey!
I see you’re going throught a rough time and it is not an easy thing to control. But you have to remember that there is nothing that can’t be fixed and everything will be ok.
When you feel like you are getting stressed or starting to argue, just take a deep breath…focus on finding a solution to the problem and don’t focus on the bad things.
You’re not a disappointment and i doubt they see you that way. Maybe they’re also stressed for having the same problem and not being able to fix it.
Change starts in you, and don’t worry because no matter what happens, you’re family and you can always change for better.
Even if they say bad things like you mentioned, just know that it was probably just an impulsive thing said in the heat of the moment.
- Everything will be fine, better times will come my friend. Take care.