I'm not sure if I'm overthinking gender :(

So recently I keep thinking about gender. I am female and use she/her pronouns but every now and then I’m like… gender is dumb why do I have one? I guess I feel more nonbinary at times, because I rarely want to be masculine, and I don’t want he/him pronouns. I… don’t know.

I’m not sure why I’m sharing this, it gives me a lot of anxiety. But it’s been on my mind, and I don’t know who to talk about it to…


Thats totally understandable! I am female and spent years anxious about gender basically. I now identify as agender and accept any pronoun. Im glad that you shared your thoughts here. :hrtlegolove: Its ok to be confused. Feelings just are too. neither feelings nor gender have to be something you completely understand.


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