Hi, I’m Bart!
First of, thank you for even clicking onto this post.
I have a lot to get off my chest so this probably will be a long topic.
I’ll try keeping a chronological order of events to the best of my ability
Generally as a person I’m nice, shy, extremely emotional and… weird to say the least.
Say, everything started during school. I didn’t know much about thoughts, feelings or anything.
Unlike my other classmates, I was a “loner” everyone else had a little group of friends that they knew from Kindergarten or maybe just live next door.
Through the first 1-2 years everything was going smooth, I had lots of friends, we would play soccer with each other everyday or just talk stories.
Heading into the 3rd year more “groups” started forming with me always being left out of games, activities, etc. which was just the start of my today problems.
Through 3rd-5th year,
Almost everyday I was getting bullied, harassed, framed and much much more.
I’ve managed to get close to a few classmates who I’ve considered best friends and hanged out with. And everything was awesome! I was actually waking up happy, full of hope!
Which allowed me to hold my feelings and thoughts inside and not let them take control over me.
But… More issues arose.
Through those 2 years I got distanced from my family… In a sense they started treating me just like my classmates did/do in school and they never took me seriously when I talked about my problems. They would give me responses such as “Stop joking about that kind of stuff”, “Stop lying to us, we aren’t stupid”. And it started becoming too much… Having the same atmosphere from school at home… Home?!? A place where you are supposed to feel supported, safe, isolated… The group of friends I managed to make consisted of 3 people in total and it was enough for me to stay positive, happy and not let the feelings take over me as I had someone to talk to all the time and someone who understood me fully.
This will suddenly all change in the 5th year…
Others soon found out the group of friends I hang out with and made a desperate attempt that sadly worked…
They created fake Direct Messages of me talking very nasty about those friends, insulting them, talking behind their back, sharing secrets and they sent those fake messages to everyone from that group we had.
Next day I was confronted about that and obviously I was confused because I had no idea about the messages. They showed me screenshots they were sent and indeed they looked surprisingly good. I attempted to explain how I never sent those messages but they didn’t believe me one bit and that hit me hard. The same people who have been your only support for the last 2 years are now shooting you off over fake messages…
They blocked me from all socials and kept ignoring me during school.
I thought I would be able to handle it alone as I would always remember the memories of the past 2 years and the great times we’ve had.
Where am I at? 0 support. My family doesn’t believe me/understand me even after multiple attempts. Classmates are a complete chaos continuing with the bullying almost every day and it really was hard.
Main problem to all of this is I’m extremely emotional/empathic for some reason making everything a lot worse.
I managed to keep myself up and happy for barely a few months until everything started breaking down.
In school I would keep the “happy mask” on, just so people wouldn’t question me either way no one cares/no one would understand.
Everyday I would come home from school and sob… for hours… thinking of how everything was going well and then just started falling down…
Having no one to talk to I’ve started closing the feelings inside me which comes to the last 3 years where I got diagnosed with depression and anxiety disorder.
Keeping the feelings inside turned to be too much because it started becoming a mixture of everything with no one to talk to about them.
This lead to the last year of me cutting myself with a razor… Seeing the blood pouring is satisfying to me because it makes me feel… less stressed. I imagine the blood as all the feelings and thoughts just being let go.
This mindset made me just cut more and more to the point where I did end up in the hospital multiple times.
I tried keeping the whole depression and cutting stuff outside school but eventually they caught up to it which just lead to more jokes which really hurts…
With that my parents were called who knew nothing about the whole situation and of course what they decided to do is ground me and started calling me an “idiot”, “retard”, “dumbass” and so on which hurts so much more coming from your family…
Hearing about the situation, that old group of friends came back with “We are so sorry… We didn’t know you were going through all of that.” and (being my character) decided to let them into my life again, give them another chance…
I honestly thought the message thing was just a “wrong place wrong time” type of situation and was actually looking forward to returning to being happy and positive… But to no one’s suprise to say the least… History repeated itself.
This absolutely destroyed me… I fell deep into depression and at this point I’m really considering taking my life because I do not want to go through all of this again and again… Like it’s in a loop…
I head to find new friends, new people to hangout with, new people to support me.
And indeed I met some wonderful people where I said “He/She is the one” and that got me up a little bit, it distracted me from my thoughts.
With the whole situation of the previous years I got too emotionally connected to the new people I would meet to just get ignored/ghosted/betrayed again and again.
To contribute to all of this, anxiety kicked in with me always being worried and stopped by “What will they think? I’m just annoying, that’s why she’s not responding.”
And now I’m here… Cutting every single day, blood pouring everywhere, counting down days before finally giving up. It will stop the pain, it will stop the suffering.
With no friends, no support all of this is absolutely unbearable and taking my life really seems like the only option.
It’s obvious that they were playing around. No one ever cared. No one will ever care so realistically I won’t be missed by anyone.
Apparently support and happiness is too much to ask for?
That’s my story and I wanted to get it out there,
If you got to this point, thank you for reading
and enjoy your wonderful day when someone else can’t.