Just wanted to reach out and and be real with someone… I’m having a terrible wife day mentally and I just need to vent to someone. Feeling like my husband has been really selfish and distant. Nothing I do makes him happy or I feel like all the work I’m doing isn’t enough. Like I’m really proud of myself and everything I’ve got going on. I’m stressed but also excited about all the crazy opportunities that are popping up and I’m goin for it… I’m making career leaps and bounds. Everything I’ve worked for is finally leading to something! I’m so excited but I feel like he’s not. I just don’t feel like he’s proud or happy. I just want him to be on my team. Instead I feel like he’s always down because it takes away time and attention from me always doing everything for him or because I’m moving forward and he’s not. Like he’s just always in a mood and I feel like it’s my fault because my life isn’t 100% about him. Feelin kind of alone and fed up today. Sorry for the vent… I just need someone to tell me I’m not being crazy or selfish. Maybe I am. I dunno.
I know my husband loves me and that he’s a great guy. I know he has his own needs and mental health hold ups. I feel like we’re always 100% focused on him and I’ve been super patient and supportive whenever he needs me… because I love him more than anything. But things are finally starting to happen for me, and it feels like the victory I’ve been waiting for. I just feel like he’s not happy about it. I just want my husband to be supportive of me like I have been for him.