My mom and I are looking to move to Connecticut. The last time we moved (a year ago) she put her stress on me and used me as a scapegoat of sorts. It’s very draining, especially when it is such a big change on its own. We are moving back across the country and I’m rather nervous about it. What if people talk too fast and I can’t process what they are saying? What if they get mad at me for asking them to speak slower? Will they think I’m a stupid Southerner?
I’m struggling applying for jobs. I’m trying to pinpoint why, and most of it is being overwhelmed. While I hate when she does it, it helps when my mom sends me jobs that I could potentially do. I just am afraid I won’t get any because I am young and don’t have any concrete experience of my own.
I’ve also started hair pulling again (have been since April or May) and I am getting more and more worried that I will get a bald spot. I did in seventh grade, which was the last time I engaged in such behavior. I can tell part of it is needing to do something with my hands as well as anxiety. I hate that I’m doing it and I keep catching myself. It’s an unhealthy addiction that I can’t make myself stop like I wish I could.
I also am feeling really horrid about my body. I weigh the most I’ve weighed again, and have no idea what to blame other than stress or something. I need to make myself exercise more, but even that seems arduous at times. I walk to and from work most of the time, so at least twice a week, sometimes more depending on if my mom picks me up over the weekends or not. It’s just… I feel awful and gross.
Not to mention I’m afraid my pants aren’t fitting (again) because I keep having sensory issues with them.
I’ve been painting a little more frequently, which does help.
I know a big part of it is that I am depressed. I can feel the episode in my being and it’s hard to combat it. I’m glad I haven’t been feeling suicidal at least. I only have one friend here and he’s not a best friend, you know?
I hope moving will give me the opportunity to make more good friends. and maybe marry a hot rich amazing guy. LOL.
In good news, one of the kpop bands I like, Seventeen, is doing a repackage of their latest album and they will have a new leader unit song, which I am SO hyped for.
In bad news, I finished my kdrama, “So Not Worth It.” I need a season 2. They left it open for one, but normally there aren’t additional seasons in kdramas. Same with “Demon Slayer.” I finished all the anime and am rewatching it again >.< After I finished my “Fair Tail” rewatch (which is 328 episodes… so worth it tho). I stared rewatching, tentatively, “My Hero Academia” because I am behind on it. So there’s that. And there’s another kdrama I could finish and another my sister thinks I’ll like.
I want to keep procrastinating and doing things that are fun, but my body acts like a clock on a bomb, telling me no no no keep going!! it’s stressful. I need to somehow hold myself accountable for it. I will ask about it in action group.