This is just my brain being stupid I’m sure but like I’m not a bad daughter for not wanting to go with my mom and aunt to the cheesecake factory right ? Like I don’t particularly enjoy either as company but like I know I need to get out more but like why would I wanna do that with people who I don’t like being around but yet I feel like shit for saying no to going out.
Sounds like you don’t like saying no to people. It’s okay to say no. Don’t let guilt make you feel like shit about it. Perhaps you need to get out more, but you need options that you can actually enjoy. Frankly, I’d find the Cheesecake Factory really depressing too.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with saying no to going out with people when your brain isn’t in the right place to be around them. It’s about self preservation and boundaries.