Hey folks,
I’ve been unemployed 6 months and it just ran out, I have $1.63 in the bank, and now I’m sitting here without food in the house, and no presents under the tree for my kids, and bills looming over my head, and I don’t honestly know how much longer I can keep my hope up, and put on a strong face. I’ve done SO well in keeping my head up over the last six months, but I cant do it anymore, I cant pretend that tomorrow is going to be sunny after six months of days like this.
Not in the “Im having thoughts of self harm” sense, but in the “why even bother trying” sense. Since December of last year, I have put in well over 200+ applications, resumes, etc… and have had an interview here and there but no traction, and it feels like there must be something wrong with ME at this point. Like I know I have the skills, I have a resume full of awards in customer service, sales, and marketing, but I have no idea what it is that is sabotaging me for work, and now it’s to the point that my family and everything we’ve worked for is going to get very adversely effected.
To be honest, I feel like a failure. I know I’ve been trying as hard as I can. I even applied to jobs outside of my fields just to find SOMETHING. Even if I got a job tomorrow, I wouldnt even seen a check until after Christmas, and would still have to figure out how to just sustain in the interim.
The main part of all of this anguish and frustration is how its effecting my family both financially and mentally. I can tell my wifes patience is running super thin, and if I was just me, by myself, I could survive easily. I’ve done it before, but with it effecting my family its what turns my anxiety to 11.
I no longer have any idea what to do, no idea how to find a job, no idea how to not completely and utterly drown both in bills, what my family needs, and in my own head.
I turn 35 in two weeks, and its like… it’s not supposed to be like this. Not as a matter of “I’m supposed to be in a specific part of my life” but at 35 I shouldnt be sitting here panicking all the time because I’m apparently unemployable.
Also as an added bonus, I have a hunger headache because I’ve had… two slices of toast… today.