My divorce will be finalized after together for 10

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My divorce will be finalized after together for 10 years, married for 4. This hits hard while laying in bed with my 3 yr old son

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I am so sorry for the grief you are experiencing. The loss of your marriage I am sure is extremely difficult, as I have no doubt it can also be scary when you are lying there with so many thoughts running in every direction. I hope you can find comfort in your son. Comfort that although your marriage was unable to work, you both came together to make an amazing child. I was raised by a single mom. My best friend is raising his son as a single dad. There will be hard days. There will be joyful days. There will be frustrating days. And there will be days where all emotions are present. But whether it be with coffee, music, therapy, family and friends, simply by some unseen miracle, or all of the above, you can get through it. For you and for your son. I hope this next chapter brings you peace and healing, while also bring new joyful experiences, people, and adventures your way.

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Hey I saw your post. I have gone through a divorce myself and it was a very dark part of my life. It’s ok to feel the pain and sadness that come with it. I had to give myself time to grieve the loss of a relationship. Time and refocusing my life to what makes me grow helped get me out the dark cloud. Lean into your son and just love him. You sound like a great parent! Stay positive and fight through it!!! I promise you will make it through

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I know it’s tough. My wife left me after10 years with 2 kids, 8 months and 3 years. Live and enjoy life for your child. My life is so much better, even though I thought it should end. Finish your story

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It gets better! Was with my wife for 20+ years and couldn’t make it work. Make sure to stay strong in front of the kiddo and do everything you can to keep your ex in a positive light in front of them. Also, the person you’re looking for is out there, trust!

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I too am a mother to a young children and my divorce was finalized in July. My life is full with possibility and opportunity and happiness. You just gotta find it.