Hello everyone.
My name’s Francesco and I’m feeling unlovable. Before starting out, let me give you a little bit of backstory.
The last few months have been pretty hard. My best friend abandoned me, the girl I loved cheated on me, I had a car incident (I’m miraculously alive) and I threw up non-stop for three months before I decided to take control over my life. That’s what I did. I started doing the things I loved again: driving, singing, playing football, reading, creating stuff, photographing…I even started working out in order to gain the weight lost because of throwing up, and I’m still doing it. I started eating healthy, and made some new friends, after months of being completely alone. Work and school are going great too, so there seems to be nothing I should complain about. Apparently.
Even if my life is really good right now, I can’t help but feeling alone. I always go out alone. My friends live far from where I live, and they all have a boy/girlfriend. Me, I can’t find anyone. I feel like I’m not someone people could fall in love with. Everyone says I’m really handsome, I’m interesting and fascinating and engaging (I have a lot of interests and hobbies), but I can’t seem to find anyone who would like to spend their time with me. I was the type of guy who would take a lot of girls out on dates, but as I grew older I feel that’s not what I want to do anymore. I want someone to really love. I’ve been in love only twice, and I want to do that again, but I feel like I can’t do that anymore. And I’m tired of waiting and waiting and waiting, without nothing happening. I love myself. I feel good about myself when I look at the mirror, I know I’m worth. After years and years of depression and suicidal thoughts I’m glad about this, but no one seems to care. I feel like I’m invisible sometimes.
Maybe I’m just a bad boyfriend?
Please reach out and tell what you think. Thanks in advance for your help.