From (っ◔◡◔)っ saturn : no one likes me, everyone hates me. Im so depressed i cant take it anymore. Bro like everyone tells me to kill my self
Hi Saturn
Thank you for reaching out to us, that is often the hardest part of getting support. I am here, proving your first point false, not everyone hates you. It takes time for people to get to know you, and often they can come off as cold before then. I am sure you are a very interesting person who is worth befriending. Being overwhelmed by life can be helped by living one day at a time, one hour, if one day is too much. I believe in you to overcome whatever challenges you are going through now.
Here for you
-Gremlin
Hi Saturn, welcome to heart support; I’m really glad you felt you could come and share with us.
I can relate to the feelings you describe in so many ways. Feeling that everyone hates you is crippling, and I can see why it might make you question life.
I am only beginning to learn how to cope with these feelings, but I want to share the little I have learned just in case it might help.
I have been learning to write down the reasons I feel that everybody hates me and then separate these reasons into fact and fiction. My fact pile is often relatively small.
If you feel that what I have suggested could help you, I ask you to seek some support of your own. I explained my feelings to a GP I trust, and he referred me for more specific help.
I’m sorry to hear that you also have to deal with people around you who are so negative and say such cruel things to you. Are these people you need to be around, or can you remove them from your life?
Please don’t feel you have to deal with your feelings alone. Plenty of online resources are available to offer you support, and HeartSupport is always here for you.
we are a community who WILL NEVER SAY THAT.
There are a lot of us here, a lot who will say that to you.
Maybe you’re with the wrong group of people?
Telling someone that shows that there is something wrong with the person saying it. Maybe they’re younger kids and have no sense of how cruel their words are, maybe someone hurt them by saying that to them and they’re repeating it.
Your life has worth and value. I’m glad you’re here with us.
Has something happened recently, or have these thoughts been with you for a while?