Hello, again (just responded to your last post)
I want to repeat here, even though I just said it, because I really want you to know, I love you, Lyss! My sweet friend, I am so sorry about your Grandmother. Losing people is so hard. I know this. I’ve been there. Healing and moving forward can take some time and always varies by person.
I see you. I see that you’re hurting and I’m just really grateful for you. I know you recently worked on a commission for me and my partner and I am ever grateful to you for doing that, seeing that you are having such a hard time right now. I hope that it offered you some sort of peace and distraction in the process. It came out amazingly. And everyone that has seen it so far has absolutely adored it. My best friend said you turned us into the cutest potatoes!
As far as the rest, it’s okay to be struggling right now. It’s okay to be hurting. It’s normal and understandable that you’d be having a hard time doing things or feeling motivated. You know?
But as I said before and will continue to say, I’m always here for you. In my own awkward loving way I will always embrace you and offer you any sort of comfort that you may need.
I’m really sorry about your Grandma. Does it ever help to talk about her? Or does that serve as too painful? Do you think that sharing some of your favorite memories and things about her would be therapeutic for you? If so, I’d love to hear about her. And if not, that’s okay too. Up to you.
I love you, dear