I was doing so well, but the loss of my 20 year old has not only got my deeply sad and depressed, but also affected my other main cat, who is also very depressed and subdued about it (and probably confused too). Not sleeping much for weeks and constantly tensed and confused a lot of the time.
Hey @Champagne,
I remember seeing the pictures you posted the other day. So sorry for your loss. 20 years old, that’s really something! I guess you have a lot of good memories with. If you want to share some of them, don’t hesitate to do it. Sometimes that can help a little.
Much Love. 
thank you. my other main cat keeps going missing. he looks very depressed and confused and it is causing me a lot of extra stress, anxiety, sadness and sleepless nights