Hi :))
2021 has been one of the most stressful years of my life: I have had to deal with losing many close friends and an 8 month relationship I cared deeply about. I had my final exams and finally graduated high school. I discovered that I was neurodivergent and had to fight my crippling impostor syndrome as well as people telling me that I was really a neurotypical faking it all for attention. I’ve dealt with severe health problems, drug abuse, trauma and 3 suicide attempts in one year.
But despite all that, I really wouldn’t have it any other way. I’ve learned so much and I finally feel in control of my emotions and life. I did lots of research on neurodivergent self-care and I finally understand how to treat myself and when to eat, drink, relax and work.
I’m happier than I’ve ever been and I feel like I’m finally getting to know myself, like, the real me, behind all the masking and trauma and bitterness.
I’ve spent so much time hurting and belittling myself that I find guilt in taking care of myself because I feel like I don’t deserve it. I’m slowly chipping away at that guilt so I can give myself and my ND brain what it needs when it needs it. Today I had one of the best days ever and it was peaceful and quiet and I hope to have many other days like this.
And I feel like when I accept myself as neurodivergent, I can finally snip at the roots of most of my mental issues: my brain is wired differently, so I should treat it like it is. Now that I have this knowledge of how to care for myself and satisfy my different needs, I fully believe that I’ll be so much healthier and self-sufficient going forward and that’s the most exciting thought I’ve had in months.
It’s been rough. I’ve been through hell and back, probably, but I’m alive and doing everything I can to stay happy.
These forums have actually played a huge role in my healing process, so thank you, heartsupport, for everything!! I hope that one day I’ll feel ready to come back and return the favor by helping out around here <33
p.s. Take care and don’t forget to drink water!!