This isn’t a very big problem so it’s okay if you’d like to skip this! <3
So, I have a friend who I am fairly close with and they’re beginning to copy my lingo and mannerisms. I am usually the one to make jokes and weird conversation but she’s been reusing whatever I say and whenever I say it, nobody cares, but when she does, everyone thinks it’s funny and that she’s cool. I don’t understand this? It’s whatever I say but coming out of her mouth instead? I don’t know… everyone just likes her more than they like me and that just makes me feel small. I just feel like the last choice wherever I am and that kind of sucks. I know it’s nobody’s fault and it’s stupid but I just want to feel more included in stuff. There’s some people that we are around sometimes that include me the same as they do her and that makes me really happy but then there’s people who literally forget I exist until I am mentioned eventually or speak?? This is just a really stupid thing to worry about, i’m sorry.