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Toxic traits

Ever since my first heartbreak, it seems like I have never been able to learn how to love. Every relationship I’ve had has ended in such negative impact that it makes me wonder, “is it really me?” I believe to have found a great opportunity with someone new that has all traits from which make me want to better myself but at times, I feel like an option or just not good enough. Where do I begin to not only offer better but improve my overall happiness. Apart from other minor breaking feelings, this seems to always be a toxic trait of mines.

To be honest, asking the question is a great first step! It shows you’re taking self-improvement seriously, which is a GREAT treat to have, and you should pat yourself on the back for doing that! (Go ahead, pat yourself on the back. I’ll wait…)

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Good job. Now, as for overall happiness, in my experience, the best way to get closer to that is to help other people be happy! Whenever I’m focused on myself, I start to get down, but if I can distract myself from myself, that helps a lot! If you can do that, you’ll find out just how encouraging and positive you can be!

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Never thought of it this way! Very different perspective, thank you so much for this Paul!

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