Hey everyone, I heard about this place just recently. Anyway, to make a long story short, I’m in my late 30s, I have a 20 year history of depression that has flared up badly 10 years ago and just over one year ago. This most recent episode is much worse, and basically ruined my life.
I went on medical leave from work, then applied for disability insurance when it was clear that there was no way in hell I could go back to an incredibly dysfunctional workplace in my state, even with “accommodations”. I already had several of those in place, but it’s hard with a mental illness. How do you pin down exactly the place and duties that make my condition worse?
So, I was quickly approved for disability because of my long medical history, a previous claim, and being under the care of a psychiatrist. I felt a sense of relief at first, because I could then take time to get better and find out what I really wanted to do with my life. Or, so I thought.
Ok. So I proceeded to get counseling through EAP (useless garbage) and privately too. I completed a course of rTMS with absolutely no effect. I tried about 10 more antidepressants, antipsychotics, mood stabilizers. Most were worse than useless. I became so despondent I began self harming and making plans to end my life.
I had to go to the hospital one day, because it was particularly bad. It was terrifying. I got taken to a secure area by security, then sat in a room that looked like a jail cell, and interviewed by a social worker and a psychiatrist. I really didn’t want to stay there, and considering it was the start of the pandemic, they didn’t want to admit a non psychotic patient.
So, more meds, intensive outpatient program, more therapy, until my psychiatrist finally decided to try the MAOI drugs since nothing else worked. I have to admit, Nardil is the only thing that’s come close to doing anything. The side effects are brutal but I can put up with them for the moment.
Ok so finally here’s the big problem: after 2 years, I have to be sick enough that I can’t reasonably do any job that pays a majority of my pre disability income. Right now I have no idea what I can handle and what I’d like to do.
I have very little energy, I get dizzy and nearly faint if I have to go up stairs, I’m frequently confused and forget things, and I’m easily overwhelmed by having more than one task at a time.
Wtf kind of job would work? I should mention that I went to a career counselor last year, took some tests, and they all came back with shit like “medical researcher”, “professor”, “military officer”, “test pilot”. Holy shit. Everything was a job that I’d either have to drop everything for and get my PhD, or something wildly inappropriate given my medical history.
I like sciencey stuff sure, and planes are awesome, but I can’t make a career out of it. I’d need flexible hours, breaks, ability to work from home, not too much stress, and enough money to not be in poverty.
So… do I try occupational rehab and see if I can be accommodated somehow? Or stay on disability until I either die or get better?