My mom had a stroke in March and since then my life has fallen apart. I have been struggling money wise for months and I feel like a failure.
We all fall down. It’s okay. We’re human. We keep marching on. I’m sorry about your mom. Don’t give up, but keep trying. This won’t last forever. 
I’m so sorry to hear about your mom! I know the toll that strokes can take on your mind and body. I hope that your mom is doing better my friend.
I’m sorry that you are having financial struggles. I certainly can understand and relate. It’s never an easy battle. Just know that you are NOT a failure. And if you ever need a safe place, we are here for you.