What matters if you have no people who love you an

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What matters if you have no people who love you and you are alone all day every time? What do you do then? What can i do to change this? Im friendly, i give money to homeless people, i have cats, i do what i can… But nobody likes me… Somehow… I dont know why.

Hey I hope you’re doing well, I truly believe you are a cool person and a friendly one. I totally understand where you’re coming from, I have felt like that in the past, I’ve thought to myself, “I’m so cool and kind and smart and good at a lot of things, why doesn’t anyone want to hangout with me?”. Someone loves you, I am sure of that, your family, your friends, your peers, look for them and take care of the people who love you and the people you love. Find the people who you enjoy being with and share interests and hold on to them. Take care friend, and reach out to a loved one.

Hi there and thank you for sharing.

Feeling lonely is sometimes so hard on us… Like you said, we are cool, we know we have value, we are worth some connection and yet there is little to no one there. We want to share our passion, music taste, maybe something cool that happened, but we don’t have much people around that we can open with. I feel you, it can build this self-doubt of " whats wrong with me?", right ?

It reminds me a bit of where i was some time ago, when i wanted to share my passions, ideas, perspectives and the more i tried to get friends, the less it worked. Like for whatever reason looking out for them hard and being super-friendly with people somehow scared them away. I stopped, build myself up from ground ( long story there ), i had to relax a bit, give myself a bit of credit, love, belive in my own value and just do my stuff around with poeple. At some point i realized i dont need dozens of so called friends, but literally 2. (It might be cultural thing as in my country calling someone a friend means i can call them 3 am to get in the car and they will. )
I have some colleagues or coworkers, but i realized the real value of getting these few very close connections i build and i work to keep them this way.
What i am aiming here at is th fact that once i stared to value myself- and not stress about something being wrong with me, the moment it came naturally :slight_smile: A bit of credit, some love to myself for who i am, a bit of “i am ok the way i am” and it give me a space to focus ot was really matters, and everything else started get in place.

This piece matches that perfectly
“…Never cared for what they do
Never cared for what they know
But I know
…”

I know you are fantastic person, with passions, empathy, being emotional and loved for who you are. II am sure you know what really matters :heart:
Matt