Worrying about unresponsive friend

I’m worried about my friend. They aren’t answering their door, I have no way of contacting them, and when we were in school, they were very unresponsive emotionally. I don’t know what to do, there are 4 days until I see them again for summer school, but I don’t think I can wait that long. I’m terribly worried about them.


Hey @Rezu

I hope you have managed to get a reply from your friend by now, its so worrying when you can’t get hold of someone you care for isnt it? It shows what a wonderful loving friend you are. Do you know any of their family that you can contact? Has your friend been having problems recently?? If all else fails you can contact the police on thier local number not the emergency line and ask them to come and check on your friend. I do hope it doesnt come to that though and they turn up. Please keep us informed. You friend is very lucky to have you.
Much Love Lisalovesfeathers. x



It’s definitely really scary when u all of a sudden stop hearing from someone u really care about. I just went through this with my friend not to long ago. Best thing to do is to keep trying to get ahold of them. If they still don’t answer I would suggest getting some help as this could get worse. Don’t give up on ur friend they may get upset about it now but I promise u it will be worth it later when they are in a better mindset. They will look back on this and remember what a good friend u were while they were going through a hard time.

Also make sure ur taking care of urself too. Self care is key especially in times like this bc u gotta make sure ur well in order to be able to care for ur friend.

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Hey @Rezu,

I am so very sorry that you don’t have any update from your friend. Knowing someone is going through a rough time and seeing them isolating without knowing what’s actually going on is so worrying. It makes completely sense to feel the way you do, and it truly shows how much you care.

Do you have received any updates since you’ve posted? If not, maybe it could be possible to contact their parents directly? I’m sure it wouldn’t be a bother at all and would actually be appreciated.

I hope you are taking good care of yourself right now. There are situations that are out of our control, which makes it even more important to try to slow down and relax as much as possible. I’m sending plenty of hugs your way and hope you’ll only receive positive and reassuring updates from now on. :hrtlegolove:

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