Hey, hi.
I was a bit surprised after taking the Compass Test that my physical score was the lowest, because my mental health generally just isn’t great right now. But I figured I would try to give honest answers to everything so here we go:
Which self-care practice is hardest for you?
Exercise. I used to go to the gym almost every morning at 5am but COVID put a stop to that. I fallen in and out of routines since 2020. Looking back at gym time I don’t think I ever actually enjoyed it so I’ve wanted to find something that I love (or at least don’t hate).
Does taking a shower on a regular basis feel like torture?
No, but I often have to remind myself how good I feel after I take one.
Are you not being safe in your relationships?
I’m safe in my relationships, but I often remove myself if I think that I’m going to be a burden.
Have you made a permanent pillow fort on your couch?
No, but I wish I did. My pets are so darn easy to cuddle with.
Do you act like you don’t deserve care?
Yes. I feel like it’s my responsibility to take care of others. It’s my reason for existing. I have a hard time believing that I deserve care because it means that I’m a problem.
Do you feel like the worst person ever?
Yeah. I feel like I’m not “good enough” and that my friends’ and family’s lives wouldn’t be different if I left and went to live on a remote island forever.