In my earlier post I shared that I realized that I have a mental illness and what childhood trauma I endured. The perpetrator was my sister in law. She prayed on not only me but my brother also, her manipulation tactics were well planned and executed.
Looking back she had me isolated and hating my family but most of my brother.
She had me convince we were in a serious relationship and had my brother so confused and feeling very low about himself.
Fast forward many years I got the strength to explain to my brother what actually happened when everything came to light.
He had no idea the length of the abuse
She even convinced him to have a threesome with myself as the third.
After opening up about what happened he hugged me cries and apologized for not knowing what happened, I said it was ok and that he wouldn’t have know because how manipulative she is.
He promised that he would make it up to me and that he was going to talk to her.
Unfortunately she once again convinced him that I was partly to blame and that one of their daughters might be mi w which she told the girls.
He didn’t make it up to me and is living with the abuser that abused me.
I haven’t spoken to him and I have let me family know that he doesn’t exist
That I no longer have an oldest brother.
They are still the together.
The second bother I also told what happened and he said that if he had know he would have done something.He knows now, when I finished explaining what happened all he said was
“Well in better news” he is putting together a music video.
I found out that he asked his son who spent a lot of time with her if she had so w something to him, he said no and that was that, he did not do anything.
They the child me abandoned and forgotten.
I have another brother who takes care of my mom. They both support me to this day.