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Belongs to: Have you ever felt like you couldn't get the help you needed to heal!? -- John Floreani of Trophey Eyes Opens Up About Addiction @healthsupport any ideas for someone who had been going through the hell going to treatment, getting divorced for going and still even dealing with aa it had been tough singing together any meaningful clean time being called an ass for leaving my family after my wife put the divorce in. She refused counseling or doing anything I gave her a child and that seems to be what she really wanted.
Are you happy with your treatment providers, if not are their more options to try in your area?
If you are not getting relief from the provider you are currently with, perhaps they are not the right person to meld with you, and your personality. If it is going well, and you like your providers that is great. I’m sorry that you are going through the painful situation of a divorce with a child, and that your significant other may not have tried very hard to make things work. That’s a very hard thing to deal with. Relapsing through hard times happens. This is something you have to be aware of, to not beat yourself up and punish yourself for making a mistake, but to work on how you can make changes in your life/personality to begin to avoid having to make those same mistakes again. I know when it comes to substance abuse this is not an overnight, or easy solution, situation. It is a complicated one that involves the individuality of YOUR struggle with what you are going through. I don’t have tons of context here, so I’m just going off what little you gave. I believe in you, I believe in time you can get off the substances, and that each day you live free from substance dependancy is one worth celebrating. Yesterdays mistakes don’t matter, and tomorrows mistakes haven’t happened yet. Do your best in each moment to try to find ways you can live up to the image of the best you that you have in your head. Owning the moment, getting even 1% better at not making mistakes daily, will compound over time. You don’t lose your sobriety time when you relapse, you learn from it. I hope that you can find relief to what you are experiencing, and please feel free to share more if you want/need to. <3 We are here.
@@HeartSupport I have been having to move a bunch and dates to get an appointment are months out. Divorce where I had to move to our cabin 5 hours away and a healthcare system which is an hour away is tough. I want to be productive make money support my ex-wife and son. But trying to get the help is the hardest part.
I’m sorry you’ve been dealing with such a brutal ending to your relationship. It is so hard to feel as if the struggles you are dealing with would become an obstacle to a fulfilling relationship with the person you love. As you said so well, it feels as if the message they gave you is that you were just not goo enough, that somehow your own demons were making you unlovable, which is such an injustice. I can only imagine how hurtful and isolated this situation must have been for you. Especially as on top of it your patience has been challenged in order for you to get the support you need. It should so much easier and alost instantaneous to be helped when we ask for it. Through this emotional storm you have been taking active steps though, and it sounds like you are doing what you can with the cards you’ve been dealth with. I truly want to applaud you for that and encourage you to be as patient as possible with yourself through all of this. Each tie you reach out and each time seek help is worth it, even if the results have yet to be seen at times because of elements that are not in your control. I see you, friend. I see your efforts and everything you’re doing, and I’ll be rooting for you with all my heart.