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@heartsupport Did I do this right? anyone? She says " tagout heartsupport" Is this right? My greatest fear, being disabled is not being able to see my children/grandchildren grow up. I am a retired disabled Detective certified forensic interviewer of children. I lost my career due to health and while I battled that my second wife turned my child with her against me. My child now not only calls me a sinner because I listen to Metal but she has condemned me a sinner as well. Cutting me off from all contact blocking me blocking mutual friends and had a baby and said nothing to me. I don’t even know his name where they live anything. I did nothing to deserve the treatment i receive we separated I got sick the got religion and boom. I have older children with a first wife and we are all very close. I have a neurological condition (tremors, Corea, so forth) along with other illnesses. I feel that I need every second to count. I would like to hear your interpretation and guidance on the song by INFECTED RAIN - DYING LIGHT. Because really all I have left is time but don’t know how much. also, according to me Lena Scissorhands (Infected rain) is soon to take the title of queen of metal from Otep. How can I convince you guys to do this???

Firstly yes the tag is right, Thank you so much for reaching out to us and I’m sorry for everything that you’re battling. Being apart from your kid like that is a really tough place to find yourself in and I can see how much you love your child. I wish I had some easy answers for you but I do want to encourage you to keep doing whatever you can to keep loving and being available for your kids.

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Hey my friend! Thank you so much for reaching out, that isn’t always an easy thing to do. I appreciate you having the strength to open up :slight_smile:

I notice and recognize your pain. Not being able to see your children I’m sure is a deep hurt. Having this weight stack on top of health concerns is heavy, and is certainly not an easy thing to go through. I’m so sorry that you had hurtful titles placed on you for listening to metal, I completely know how you feel. Despite this hurt, do not let regret be an anchor. You were created exactly who you were meant to be. Although we may find it easier to change who we are to make people stay, or make them happier, this is not what is to be done, people come and go.

You are exactly right my friend; I believe every second here counts, the impact you can make in this world is significant. In my opinion, the “Infected Rain” lyrics remind me of the saying, “Memento Mori” (Remember you must die). There are many interpretations of this, but in my eyes, I see it as a very positive thing. Our time here is limited, and we have to ask ourselves, how are we going to spend this time that is given to us? We have to be here, and it is our choice of how we can make the best of it.

You are so strong my friend, please never stop being you. Keep persevering through this gift of life that has been given to us. Never hesitate to reach out, we love you :slight_smile: