HeartSupport Fan #16

It’s an endless spiral of failure. And everyone around me is succeeding.

Hi! We chatted about this on stream tonight! Major takeaway: failure isn’t bad, and other’s might see you as succeeding so you should too!

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i totally understand that, love. i feel that way more often than not, too. most of the time, i tend to feel like whatever i do, someone always does it better so then i think my accomplishment isn’t worthy of any value at all. i know for me, this is the LEAST comforting advice ever, but i also know it’s true: you are valued, and you are worthy. which in hand, makes your accomplishments and everything you do valued and worthy. one reminder that i like to tell myself when i feel this way is “these feelings deserve to be validated. i deserve to be validated. though i may see myself as a failure, many around me do not.”