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@heartsupport I find it awkward to post here regarding this but I love Tool and this is one of my favorite songs ever. I’m definitely dealing with some grief issues regarding my girlfriend’s suicide in December. Reaction vids like this really keep me in a positive mindset though.
Absolutely! That’s a huge loss you’re grieving. Thanks for posting. You’re finding healthy ways to work through it and you’ll get there. Sending you some love, friend.
Satty
hi there,
i am so sorry for your loss. losing a loved one is absolutely devastating and i am sending you all my love during your grieving process. i am really happy that watching reaction videos like this has put you in a more positive mindset through such a tough time; it is so important to find those healthy coping mechanisms when tragic events like this strike. i hope that you can cherish the memories that you and your girlfriend shared with each other. i always say that your loved ones always find a way to show you that they are present in the universe. no matter where life takes you, i am sure she will be watching over you and she will be proud of you.
sending positive vibes your way and a virtual hug.
-daniela
hi friend,
i’m really sorry to hear about your girlfriend. losing someone you love is incredibly tough, and grief can be a heavy burden to carry. i’m glad to hear that Tool’s music and reaction videos are helping you stay positive during such a difficult time. music has a powerful way of connecting with our emotions.
sending love,
celina <3333
Hi Friend,
I am incredibly sorry for your loss. Losing someone as close as your girlfriend is so heartbreaking. I commend you for sharing your thoughts and feelings and finding ways to keep moving forward. Trying to maintain the light during overwhelming periods of darkness is truly difficult, so I love that you are able to find ways to keep your head up.
Hope this helps!
Hi Friend,
Losing a loved one to suicide is such a hard experience to go through. I am so glad you’re able to find a positive mindset through music and reaction videos of this type. Thank you for sharing - it means a lot to those around you with similar stories. Sending love and hugs your way.
Maggie <3
Hi!
I am extremely sorry for your loss.
Grief is such a hard thing to go through and a long process. Losing someone you love is devastating but you are so strong and will get through it (and it will take time, but you will make it).
It is amazing that you are using positive coping mechanisms to get you through this incredibly hard time. And music is a great tool to help you so keep using videos and music to get you through this.
You are not alone! and will always have people that will hear you out here in the forum so please use it whenever you need it.
Sending lots of love and thoughts and again I am sorry for your loss.
hey friend,
thank you for leaving a comment (it can def be hard to open up!) and for your vulnerability. losing someone we love to suicide is such a deep, unbearable pain. i’m so sorry for your loss of your girlfriend last december. i’m really thankful these videos provide a positive mindset to you through the grieving journey. my thoughts are with you as you continue to embrace the many emotions and feelings grief brings you. if you ever need a spot to vent or share how you’re doing, your heartsupport community has your back and will be here always to give you unconditional love and support. you’re understood, you’re loved, and you matter.
love,
twix
First, I want to start off by sending love and sympathies during this time of dealing with such grief and loss. I can’t imagine the pain and confusion you must be dealing with. Your strength is inspiring, and keeping those memories alive inside you shows what an incredible person you are, and I know that your girlfriend felt the love you continue to share. Finding a positive outlet during this time, like you have, is wonderful. Music is a fantastic tool to help us find peace during our most horrible moments. I can only imagine all the questions you must be asking yourself at the moment and those questions and feelings are valid and authentic. The band Convictions released a song recently called The Price of Grace and it deals with those questions you might be asking yourself. Know that as long as you carry your love for her, she will live on forever. I pray that you continue to find solace in her memory and you can gain healing.
With love and sympathy
Eric
Hey, im so sorry about your girlfriend, its very tragic, heartbreaking, and at times angering, though ive haven’t lost my parents and or a significant other, i know whats its like to lose someone you love especially when that person is your ride or die, the love of your life, battling demons is exhausting and im so sorry she went through that, i recently went through the same thing mentally and it still comes up everyday
But i just want to tell you that you are such a strong person, to be able to connect with music and music helping you keep a positive mindset is something i always love seeing from people because i do the same, cherish the memories always, your girlfriend would want to see you happy and keeping the wheels turning forward, ive been through so much loss throughout my young life, so i know it hits close to home especially since this person was your ride or die, but stay strong bro, sending positive vibes and prayers your way, if you ever need to talk im always here.
-Kenny
Thank you everyone for the kind words. I truly appreciate it. She and I connected a ton over a similar taste in music and comedy as well. I obviously miss her tremendously but fortunately I have a very tight knit grip of friends and family.
Thank you everyone,
Jacob
Hi there! Thank you for reaching out even if it might feel a little bit uncomfortable. Losing someone to suicide, especially a romantic partner, can be so incredibly difficult. I’m so sorry that you have had to experience this. However, I am glad that you’re finding a way to navigate the grief process. Music can be so impactful on our day to day lives, and it can sometimes support you when you feel like no one else can. Time can only heal, and I hope that you start to feel better soon. Please don’t hesitate to reach out again. We’re all here for you. Sending you all the love and support.
@@HeartSupport thank you annelise. It’s been difficult but talking about it has definitely helped. There are certain things that she and I used to watch together that are hard to watch now but it’s getting better.