Hello, since my divorce in 2020 I’ve visited several psychotherapists for the last three or four years. My present state is mostly the result of my disease. I suffer from post-traumatic epilepsy. I had an accident that happened in 2011 and since that time I was either unemployed or did low qualified jobs (I´ve got college education). I can´t do jobs as I did before 2011, because in Czechia people suffering from epilepsy aren’t allowed to drive fleet vehicles. I was working in new projects department or quality department as a quality engineer in automotive and for such jobs, it was also necessary to drive fleet vehicles.
So I applied for administrative jobs, but I think, that I have never been invited to an interview because of my epilepsy, not because I wasn´t qualified for the jobs. So because I love dogs and nature, I worked for a dog shelter or as a forestry worker. Last year I decided to undergo a retraining program “Tiler”, which started in December. The course lasted 150 hours. In the middle of the course I realized, that it gives me nothing. It was such a poor quality. I don´t need a job at all costs. I have consistent income – invalidity pension and moreover I get “housing benefit” – it´s a social benefit from the state in Czechia. After divorce we sold our house that we had built, I can use that money as well.
So, I can´t find any suitable job and moreover also I can´t find a woman for a relationship for myself. I´m trying to find a woman three and a half years. I use dating internet pages. Within that period I met two women, that I was dating for two or three months. I have no other possibility, since I´ve no friends, that I would meet with. I just regularly visit my parents. I´ve never been successful with girls and women (probably because of my nature not because of my looks – I looked better as I’ve grown older). I was 24 years, when I lost my virginity with my wife, which I spent 17 years with and I´ve always been faithful and I believe she´s been as well. She supported me a lot after the accident. I was also her first man/boy to have sex with. She was 17 years old, we met at the disco. I was “going clubbing” alone almost for three years, before I met her. During that time, I met only one girl, I was dating about two months.
This week I ended my sessions with the therapist. Since I realized, that it´s pointless. I no more believe, that I meet someone or that or find a job I would love/like. I don´t consider and very probably never will consider “suicide”, because there is always something to do, that gives you reason to live another day (except for some case I’d suffer from disease causing great suffering and pain) or unbearable low quality of living.
So I decided to change my life completely. I decided to use step by step the money that I got for selling the house, for my pleasures – travelling and sex tourism. Maybe I can start Onlyfans account or something like that with selling sex videos. Maybe it´s going to work maybe not.
All my life I was that “Nice boy” helping everybody, decent, faithful, hurt nobody, vegan. Maybe if I turn my life upside down, it will change to better.