I am currently going through a horrible breakup af

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I am currently going through a horrible breakup after 9 years. Thank you

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Hey Friend,

If you need anyone to talk to, we’re here to give you our ear (in this case, eyes?). I went through a really tough time and even hit a rock bottom after going through a divorce that ended an eight year relationship. The experience was aweful, but in looking back ended up being the best thing to have ever happen to me.

Wanted to say that to let you know you’re not alone and we’re here for you.

Stay strong my friend. Hold Fast.

I went through a break up after almost 9 years together. Although my breakup situation was mutual between us, afterwards, it opened my eyes up to all the kinds of mental & emotional abuse I had to endure. Now I have a better sense of self and what I truly want vs. not want in a relationship. I never wanted to get married before, I never wanted kids, I was merely existing and felt so alone while in that former relationship. Thankfully, since then, have met the love of my life and got engaged in April earlier this year. I met a person that changed all of that for me and we envision our future together on a daily basis. I now have a best friend who gets me and accepts me and makes the effort to deepen our bond. He became everything I didn’t even know I wanted, everything I didn’t know I needed, and more. I hope this gives you hope you will find a love that lasts a lifetime. Goodluck!

I went through something similar. My wife left me a month after buying a house because she found another man she could cheat with. I struggled with inadequacy and suicidal thoughts, even creating a note. But it does get better. It’s hard, and it will be a struggle, but it WILL get better