I’m been trying to escape from the incel mindset, but I keep thinking as incel. I’m male virgin and had a teacher I will never have a girlfriend. This make me question every relationship that had with people. I do believe that I’m undesirable and weak. I have not able to box or skateboard, which kills my ego and self worth.
As you know I’m still haven’t been able to get over my ex friend from Rhode Island. I miss her so much and hurt how our friendship end.
However, my other skater friend just told me that she was just using me. That fuck with my head so much, because it me question not only friendship with her, but my reality in general. He never met her and just gave me shit for driving an hour to see her. My sisters and thearpaist said she did not use me.
In addition, my family and co worker we’re trying get me to hook up with her. Which is fuck, because she had a boyfriend and I just felt only look me as friend. It really fuck with my head.
I told her that I had feelings for her and that when we went out separate ways. But that when guy friend really made me feel so shitty about.
I honestly part me was happy just to be her friend. I still love her and she was really supportive of my skateboarding and my music. I just love her as a person.
People think was dumb because I did not get sex from her and that was worthless.
I just fucking hate how everyone make me has this fuck up resentment towards her. Made me question my own reality and just everything about it.