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I’m going through a divorce, we’ve been 2 yrs separated…my wife soon to be ex, was extremely toxic. But other than her toxicity she’s a great person… she has such a few bads, but those few bads are strong horribles. I told her, if you could only work on that so we can be good, we’d be great. And I would tell her… if you don’t fix it with me, I know for a fact you’re going to fix it with someone else. I told her I much rather have the best version of her than her learning through the experience of loss and giving her best version to someone else. It didn’t work, In a 2 way street I got tired of walking in the same path and called it quits. Although I consider myself a reasonable person, I look at the facts and I know that it was the best decision I could’ve taken, but I certainly understand the lyrics when it says “I know someday you’ll have a beautiful life, I know you’ll be a star in somebody else’s sky, but why, why, why can’t it be mine” I don’t dread in sorrow but it’s such a shame. As of now I feel traumatized by the sour taste of this relationship that I can’t see me being in another relationship anytime soon. While my soon to be ex wife already has a bf… so that tells me I wasn’t a problem as bad as she swears I was… because if I was… she’d be feeling like me dreading the thought of being in a relationship… ugh