So at the start of the spring semester I began my second try at math. I failed last semester because of family issues.
I end up sitting next to this girl and she passes me a note asking if we could be friends. I was so excited. I haven’t really had friends in years. I would eat my school lunches in the bathroom. I cry when I see my former friends on Facebook going out and doing things together without me. Ect.
Anyway, I was all like “Yes of course we can be friends!”. We got along pretty well and helped each other solve math equations. We even liked some of the same things which made me happy.
Anyway, she kept texting me. At first I felt like someone was actually interested in getting to know me and I was excited to get to know her. Until I started to feel like our conversations were just her getting towards something. Almost like she was putting in time.
I don’t know how I knew it was coming but it did. Last night we were joking about giving ourselves haircuts then all of a sudden she gets nervous and asks me about my sexuality. I tell her I don’t know really. Then she writes a long paragraph about how she thinks she’s bi but hasn’t “fully had sex” with a girl and that she asked her boyfriend (fiancé) if she could and he said it was okay. She told me she was physically attracted to me and that she wanted to tell me that for a while.
I know this didn’t just develop over time. We have only known each other for a few months. I’m pretty sure she only befriended me to ask to have bi-curious sex with me.
I let her down gently. I dont like ruining people’s day, but I feel used. I’m pretty hurt over it. She really only wanted me for sex and its dehumanizing. I can’t see myself being friends with her anymore.