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I wonder tho…is it possible to become comfortable with being lonely !? I definitely made peace with it…might be why I’ve became less interested in having much contact with others as now that people are coming back into my life but I don’t really want to do anything with anyone !!
Hello Friend
I had to respond to your post, it is a strange thing to be comfortable with being alone, strange in the sense that people that do not or cannot feel it find it so. The reason I can attest to that is that I am very much at peace with it, I love being alone, I am happy with my own company. However I don’t know if that is anything to do with the reason why you dont want anything to do with anyone unless it is about selfishness? Please do not take that the wrong way, Unfortuntaly the down side to being alone a lot is you get selfish which is understandable, you do what you want, when you want and you dont have to answer to anyone at all so when all of a sudden other people come along and you have to consider their “feelings” wonder what they might want to do, something that other people do naturally it is out of sorts for people like us who never have to do that, infact it can be irritating. That doesnt make you or me bad people, it is just a way of life. So I think being comfortable with being alone is just being happy with your own company and being with others is more about having to make changes in your routine and whether you want to. lol I have to say that most of the time, I don’t want to and don’t but sometimes for family I will make an extra effort. We are all different, some people are loud and want to be surrounded by 15 children and never have a moments peace and others don’t. It is all about finding what makes you happy. I hope you continue to find what does and you keep doing it. Lisa x
@Lisalovesfeathers thank you for sharing I could agree with your testimony.
I am a loner myself, i love my own company and i am at peace with myself. So if i want to go to an event is an effort I have to do and pray not to stumble any disturbance of my peace.
Blessing